So my hubby is awesome... we talked and talked and talked.. then we cried and cried and cried... I, of course, yelled and yelled and yelled... I hate his family (long story) just the typical in law issues plus more and at 1 million times worst! (Get what I'm saying?) Yup! They are THAT bad!
Anyways, after endless tears and numerous objects free flying from my hand to hubby's direction... we've come to a conclusion... his family sucks! Ah! A realization for hubby... it's like he has just now seen the light... (Angels singing) HE is going to ignore his family and when they decide to take some ActRight meds, he will confront them and bitch them out! Which I am totally excited and at the same time supportive about... hehe! I felt bad at first because he has gone through a lot the past week dealing with the death of a friend and also choosing sides between me and his family and AT LAST!.. I won! This is a big deal to me because I never win... he is always quick to defend them and then lash out at me because he was always afraid to hurt their feelings but failed to acknowledge mine...
We'll see how things go.. it has only been Day 3 of post-drama so it's gonna be a long struggle ahead.. I can't wait... blah.
So, lets continue... I was saying how awesome hubby is.. well, he is awesome because he can deal with my airheadedness, neurosis, quick-temperedness, adhd, ocd, chronic anxiety and manic depression (all diagnosed). Believe me, if I had to marry me, I would totally be the "Wham Bam F You Maam! But I guess that also has to do with my perception of a male version of myself, who would be totally misogynistic but act sensitive... anyways, that's just another blog in itself...
UGH! Rough weekend for me! Also, this daylight savings time sucks donkey balls, I have to get up earlier than I normally do and it is going to take my mind and body a long while to adjust to this new time change... I'm feeling irritable already and Monday isn't here until tomorrow.
Sunday, March 14, 2010
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